By: Mrs. Kuldeep Kaur, Principal
What Is “The Last Time” Reminder?
“The Last Time” is a gentle nudge to all of us—educators, parents, and guardians—to recognize that many seemingly ordinary moments with our children are, in fact, fleeting. It underscores the reality that every bedtime story, every hand-in-hand walk, and every heart-to-heart conversation will one day occur “for the last time,” often without warning.
Why It Matters
- Irreplaceable Memories: Studies show that 95% of our shared time with children happens before they turn 18. Once these years pass, they’re gone forever.
- Life in the Present: We’re accustomed to postponing joy—saying “after exams,” “after the promotion,” or “after retirement.” But tomorrow’s uncertainties mean today’s moments are the only guaranteed gifts.
- Emotional Well-Being: Being fully present with our children strengthens their sense of security, boosts self-esteem, and fosters lasting bonds.
Key Features of a “Cherish Every Moment” Mindset
Mindful Presence: Deliberately setting aside distractions (phones, work worries) to focus on your child.
Daily Rituals: Simple routines—bedtime stories, morning walks, shared meals—that become anchors of connection.
Quality Over Quantity: It’s not about how many hours you spend, but how engaged you are in each moment.
Intentional Listening: Giving space for children to express their thoughts and feelings, however small they may seem.
Spontaneity: Embracing unplanned adventures or conversations, even if they interrupt our to-do lists.
Benefits of Cherishing Every Moment
Stronger Bonds: Being present builds deep emotional connections with your child.
Better Mental Health: Children feel more secure, confident, and emotionally balanced.
Lasting Memories: Small daily routines become lifelong treasures.
Improved Communication: Open conversations lead to trust and understanding.
Academic & Social Growth: Emotionally supported children perform better in school and relationships.
Personal Fulfillment: Parents experience more joy and less regret.
Family Values: Time together strengthens traditions and teaches meaningful life lessons.
Process: How to Start Cherishing Every Moment
Pause & Plan: Each week, choose one special activity—reading a new book, cooking together, or simply a walk in the park.
Set Boundaries: Define “no-phone” times during key family interactions (e.g., meals, bedtime).
Create Rituals: Institute simple, repeatable traditions—Monday movie night, Friday storytelling, Saturday nature walks.
Reflect & Record: Keep a “memory journal” or photo album. Encourage your child to draw or write a line about their favorite daily moment.
Celebrate Milestones: Acknowledge both big events (first day of school) and small wins (learning to tie shoelaces).
Review & Renew: Monthly, revisit your rituals and rituals and adapt introduce new activities, retire ones that no longer resonate.
Conclusion
Time is our most precious—and most limited—resource. Every “last” moment slips past unnoticed until it’s gone. By choosing to be present now, we enrich our children’s lives, strengthen our family bonds, and create a tapestry of memories that will outlast us all. Let’s pledge today to stop postponing joy, to embrace each bedtime story and hand-in-hand walk, and to live fully in the gift of “now.”
“Stay blessed, stay present, and always stay connected—with your heart, your family, and your purpose”.
Frequently Asked Questions
Prioritize short, meaningful interactions over length. Even 10 minutes of undivided attention can make a lasting impact.
Follow their lead. Ask open-ended questions about what they’d like to do, and be willing to adapt on the fly.
Share the concept with them and coordinate small traditions—monthly video calls, joint arts-and-crafts sessions, or storytelling afternoons.
Not necessarily. Co-watch a family-friendly show or play an educational game together. The key is shared engagement, not passive consumption.
It’s never too late to start anew. Acknowledge the missed moments, discuss them with your child if appropriate, and recommit to making the most of today.
